Highlights From Taylor Swift's "30 Things I Learned Before Turning 30"

Taylor Swift is turning 30 this year, and in a new essay for Elle magazine, she’s reflecting on the most important things she’s learned about life.

Taylor admits she was so low at one point that she considered quitting music, but instead came back with her album Reputation, and claimed the snake theme for herself. “I learned that disarming someone’s petty bullying can be as simple as learning to laugh,” she shares. “I can’t tell you how hard I had to keep from laughing every time my 63-foot inflatable cobra named Karyn appeared onstage in front of 60,000 screaming fans.” (While she doesn’t name any of her bullies by name, it’s pretty apparent she’s talking about Kim Kardashian)

Taylor gets very candid on a lot of subjects in the essay, and it's all pretty worth reading! Here are a few of our favorites:

  • "When tragedy strikes someone you know in a way you’ve never dealt with before, it’s okay to say that you don’t know what to say.Sometimes just saying you’re so sorry is all someone wants to hear. It’s okay to not have any helpful advice to give them; you don’t have all the answers. However, it’s not okay to disappear from their life in their darkest hour. Your support is all someone needs when they’re at their lowest point. Even if you can’t really help the situation, it’s nice for them to know that you would if you could."
  • "Apologizing when you have hurt someone who really matters to you takes nothing away from you. Even if it was unintentional, it’s so easy to just apologize and move on. Try not to say 'I’m sorry, but...' and make excuses for yourself. Learn how to make a sincere apology, and you can avoid breaking down the trust in your friendships and relationships."
  • "After my teen years and early twenties of sleeping in my makeup and occasionally using a Sharpie as eyeliner (DO NOT DO IT),I felt like I needed to start being nicer to my skin. I now moisturize my face every night and put on body lotion after I shower, not just in the winter, but all year round, because, why can’t I be soft during all the seasons?!"
  • "Learning the difference between lifelong friendships and situationships. Something about 'we’re in our young twenties!' hurls people together into groups that can feel like your chosen family. And maybe they will be for the rest of your life. Or maybe they’ll just be your comrades for an important phase, but not forever. It’s sad but sometimes when you grow, you outgrow relationships. You may leave behind friendships along the way, but you’ll always keep the memories."
  • Being sweet to everyone all the time can get you into a lot of trouble.While it may be born from having been raised to be a polite young lady, this can contribute to some of your life’s worst regrets if someone takes advantage of this trait in you. Grow a backbone, trust your gut, and know when to strike back. Be like a snake—only bite if someone steps on you.

You can read the full article here.

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